It's another fantastic foodie Friday post coming at ya!
Our family loves banana pudding, and there are a million different recipes out there for it. This particular combination is the one that hits the right note with my family!!
It seems really rich, but that doesn't seem to effect my family in the slightest! I like to bring this one along to potlucks or cookouts as well! Nothing like a creamy, delicious cool treat at the end of a big meal!!
I also love that this is in my Happy Planner Recipe Planner now as well! My recipe planner is starting to fill up with all our family favorite recipes to refer to for years to come!
Have a fantastic weekend and I can't wait to share more with you next time!!
Today we have something a little different! Typically, I share recipes and videos on Friday. However, I shared a picture on my instagram and in a few fitness facebook groups that garnered a different post!
I received several requests for the file, so I thought I would share it here with you all! My only request, as this is a free printable, is that you tag me on my planning instagram account if you use it and and use pictures!!
You can click on the image above, or click here to download the free PDF file! I hope you enjoy your fitness journey, and tracking your progress!! These are sized for a Big Happy Planner monthly box- but not quite to the edges. Print at 75% size to put in a classic sized planner.
Disclaimer-- The blog post was originally written in 2019, before our now adult daughter left home and began proudly serving our country in the U.S. Armed Forces. This is the first time it is being published.
Okay, so I have to admit it. I have watched Mean Girls. If you haven't watched that movie, it mainly revolves around one girl "infiltrating" a click of girls, and then slowly morphing into one of them because they are like, the coolest, and everyone wants to be them. Like all good Hollywood dramas, in the end it all works out blah blah blah.
I guess now you are wondering why I am blithering about a Hollywood movie on a Christian perspective blog-eh?
My oldest daughter brought something to my attention about a year ago, and it's been really heavy on my heart. From the time I got saved, and shortly there after my husband surrendered to the ministry, our goal has been to put our children in the best circles possible to nurture their spiritual growth. We homeschool for many reasons, but one of the reasons we do is to help be their main source of information so that we are able to help them choose friendships that are better for them than others. They are less exposed to sensuality and sexuality, less pressured to "join the crowd" because they are already not a part of the semi-in crowd trying to get to the upper level of the hierarchy.
But I digress.
My daughter told me about a year ago that she didn't particularly care for participation in a lot of church centered activities(more of an emphasis on inter-church activities like youth rallies and church camps) because everyone appeared plastic to her. They had their permagrin smiles on, had just the right answers for every question, all dressed the same, thought the same, acted the same (in public)- they seemed fake. Especially when my daughter would hear and see the rumblings of rebellion. She knew there was more going on behind the scenes, but everyone just had to keep that perfect appearance. It was very hard and devastating for me.
I wanted the hope that she would choose from these circles a spouse to share their same views, and life with. That she would choose someone to serve God with. And at that moment I knew it would never happen.
It broke my heart.
There are plastics in every circle. And unfortunately, now I see what she sees. I am so sad, because the fundamental Christian movement has become so regimented in their own thoughts that they have forgotten some really important and valuable tools they need to win others to the Lord (which is our goal, right?).
Life is Messy
The reality is, most kids these days don't get saved at 5 and lead a holy life, expounding upon what their parents have taught them about sin, and work towards avoiding it and helping their fellow kids to avoid it. Most kids these days come from broken homes, and have broken spirits, and live very broken lives. Standing over them and beating them with your Bible and judging them for who and where they are in life probably isn't going to bring them into the fold. Should we condone the sin they are in? No. But judgement and criticism isn't going to gain you any favor either.
Hearts are Hard to the Message
The world (unsaved Christian people here) is conditioned to think exactly how my daughter felt about what she was seeing the fundamental Christian movement- plus some. Their hearts are preconditioned to a message we have for them- and it's not going to be a one and done message most generally. It takes time for God to do a work in them because they don't want to believe everything they have been taught about Christianity is a lie- or perversion of the truth. Odds are, most of us have a very messy path to salvation. Keep that in mind when you share.
Be Honest
It's time for those of us who didn't get saved at 5, and didn't always live a life for God to just get honest. People want to see a very real side of you. They want to know that while you are different now, you weren't always the way you are. The world needs to see redemption in your life. I truly believe this with all that I am. They need to know and hear from you that you have been where they are. Not wallow there with them- but show them how God created a change in you through that situation and season of life.
The fields are ripe for the harvest- but if you don't have the right tools, and aren't willing to get dirty to harvest the crop, and in some instances, actually walk out into the field-how are we ever going to see revival in our churches? I believe it's time to put our plastic lives in the past, and roll up our sleeves, and start getting real with the world around us.
One of the primary reasons I believe we are seeing significant men in public view fall to sin, because we are (as a collective Christian body) putting a fake face on the Christian walk. There is no real honesty- that we all have sin to conquer. The movement is scared to admit that its not all perfect. My heart aches for the people who see Christianity this way. Because that's not what a lot of us are about. People need to see real. They need to see our honest, messy lives to not be hard toward us as Christians, and by extension, the church.
People need to see that the doors are open to everyone- not just the ones who looked buttoned up, and all together. They need to see a place where they fit. Broken. In Need of a Savior. So the world can then see redemption in their story, and their lives, and their ministry to others.
For years, personal Bible study has been one area I severely lacked. I would start a phenomenal study, only to fizzle out before I completed it due to one thing or another. It's been extremely frustrating for me because I am not normally a start and stop person.
Sitting in Sunday School (Pre-Covid19) one day while studying Psalms 119, I had a word I needed clarification on. So I got my phone out (gasp!) and looked it up on the Webster's 1828 website. I then wrote it in line with my text I was copying.... and a lightbulb went off for me.
Why on earth have I not been doing this this way all along?
All the scripture studies, and scripture copywork plans.... and Bible studies and reading plans. Why on earth had this not dawned on me before?
For weeks now, I have been more consistent than ever in Scripture study and reading... because I simplified the method for myself. My goal is always 20-30 minutes- but if something happens and I need to care for Dylan- I can feel satisfied with 15 minutes- and pick right back where I left off the next day.
Here's a video where I explain the ins and outs of what I do in the mornings!
I hope that is helps someone out there not feel so much pressure to study a certain way... or with a certain book. Sometimes, all you need is just The Book. I have found this so much more rewarding that any study I have done in a long time.
It's been a week or two since we shared a recipe (May was our last one!) and we have an amazing and simple dessert recipe to add to your recipe box!! If you are looking for an amazing treat to take to your next potluck or gathering, you are in luck! And we are sharing this just in time for Fourth of July!
As always, we have created a video to show you just how easy the recipe is to assemble!
And last but certainly not least, the recipe card that goes along with it. Again, this is probably the easiest dessert recipe that's not going to heat up your kitchen and will wow your friends. And you can almost count it as healthy! I mean, it has two types of fruit in it, right?! You can click here or on the image to download your free 5x7 recipe card.
I've added it to my personal cookbook as well! I love my Happy Planner Recipe Planner. Disc planners are awesome because I can rearrange my recipes however I want them, or pull them to the front to prep for my cooking week. All the best things. It's amazing!!
Until Next Time Friends! I hope you enjoy this recipe and. I can't wait to share more with you!
Have you ever had a recipe that you make... that if you were "eating it with your eyes first" as they say, you would never have eaten it? That is this recipe for me!! When my mom first married my dad way back when, my dad had this boxed meal that he loved to eat, and it had been discontinued. He and my mom worked and worked until they found what they believed was as close as they were going to get!
I have been pretty diligently working on adding recipes to my Happy Planner Recipe Planner. I like using the recipe planner because you can pull recipes for the week and put them in the front of the book so you aren't shuffling and digging for your recipes at meal time!
We've eaten this for as long as I can remember. It's a quick lunch when you need something filling, or a quick dinner when you are running behind. It's one of those trust old recipes that lives in our family and hopefully will for a few more generations.
As usual, here is a printable recipe card that you can access by clicking here or the image below!
This is a super customizable alternative to hamburger helper as well! Making it a great option for switching out for home made ingredients (fresh for canned soups, etc) making it gluten free.... the possibilities are endless!!
Recently I have felt motivated to share a little more than just small tidbits here and there- a month here.. a month there.
I have been on a journey of self discovery the last 3 years. Unpacking who you really are, verses who you force yourself to be because of other peoples expectations is not something that happens over night. It's not something you even realize you are doing until you are in the middle of it!
I am so thankful for the journey to where I am now. I have hid this journey, not because I am ashamed of it, but because I have feared other peoples opinions about what I was doing. I had to get past that. I answer to God first and foremost, and my husband, and in reality those are the only two opinions I should really care about.
No one really understands this place in which I live- the dynamic that I am in and creating in our family environment, but yet for so many years of my life I allowed all those things to be dictated to me by expectations of others that I couldn't sustain.
In reality, I was living a life that wasn't really mine. It wasn't authentic. It wasn't anything but a sham of desire of acceptance. Having had a turn in our personal lives in the last three years has given space to take a breath. To look deeply into myself and ask the hard questions. It forced me to answer those questions. Who am I? Who is God in my life? Does my life look the way it is supposed to look? Does my circle of people reflect a circle that is accepting of our journey and free of judgement and criticism? Am I reacting in a healthy way to that criticism? Is that criticism coming from a healthy place?
Y'all.
I am glad I am on the other side of that.
I read a book about a year or so ago (I can't remember when I read it) by Rachel Hollis. Because I had a spirit of discernment, and I was pretty well read in the word, I will be honest and say, there were some things I did not agree with. However, I will tell you I was fairly surprised (but shouldn't have been in all honesty, I know) by the backlash from the Christian community. They hated it. They hated her. And I couldn't for the life of me figure it out. Most everything in that book screamed at me about places where I needed improvement in my life- to be a better Christian, Wife, Mother and Friend. Were there some things in there I didn't agree with? Sure!! But in reality- I got some life changing information.
And so began my journey.
Rachel Hollis unapologetically shows that she is an imperfect human. But she also shows that she is a person reaching for more, and understands that her creator designed her to be a better version of herself every day.
I watched her be torn apart by the the Christian community for believing that her community shouldn't be an island surrounded by people who look, think, behave and act just like you. She dared to say that your community has to be diverse. GASP! I believe in order to be a city on hill, there has to be a valley around you that needs to see you.
Our Christian walk cannot be envisioned as perfect- people don't want perfect. They want real. And that is my pursuit. Every day. To be real. To be honest. To love people. To help them find hope in a very hopeless world these days.
So, if you made it all the way here.... I have been participating in the Hollis Co (Rachel and Dave Hollis' company) Next 90 Days Challenge. And now that we are halfway-ish through that 12 weeks, I wanted to give you an update via video on what that journey has looked like for me. If you are interested, here you go. If not, that's okay too!!
I have been on hiatus on posting recipes and videos, but I haven't stopped gathering videos and content to share with you!
This week, I am sharing one of my favorite vegetable side dishes. Brussel Sprouts. Yes, I said what I said. Hahaha! Seriously, these amazingly yummy tiny green heads of goodness are a family favorite in our house!
Here is this amazing recipe in my Happy Planner Recipe Planner. If you are interested in more planner content, you can head to my planner instagram! I share lots of photos of how I use my planners in my life! Our family uses the Happy Planner Teacher Planner for our homeschool, and I use many of the inserts and planner styles throughout the year for keeping up with our crazy world! Here's a snapshot of my Recipe Planner! Click Here or on the image to see more planner inspiration!
This recipe is super easy! As usual, I have shared a printable recipe card in 5x7 format for you as well as a video!! Let me know in the comments if you attempted this recipe and if you liked it! You can click on the image to go directly to the download or click here as well!
It's Friday so that means another recipe for you!!
About a month ago, my friend Shanna posted on facebook looking for chicken and rice recipes for her to make for her family. Her sweet mother in law posted this super simple, quick and easy Chicken and Rice recipe- and I thought I would share with you!
We homeschool here... and I am always up for a quick and easy lunch recipe that doesn't come out of a can or package (no judging). Some days that easier than others. But today I am sharing one of our favorite quick and easy recipes! Every one in my family loves this recipe! If you want leftovers, double this. Otherwise... this makes about 5 wraps, or, lunch for my family!
